Did I plant that?
In my first garden , I carefully map out what I ’d planted and where I ’d planted it . I drew pictures and created a color - coded paint that matched the stakes my kids had adorn . It was a thing of great smasher and organization .
Several weeks later , a perfect row of something started to grow in a space where there should have been nothing , according to my Holy Grail of Garden Maps . Worried I had forgotten a veg on my diagram , I let it acquire becauseweedsdon’t force through the soil in neat line , ripe ? For a calendar month and a half , I let this closed book words grow taller and magniloquent .
My neighbour , longtime gardeners , would stop over many evenings , beer in hands , admiring my seedlings , and complimenting me on the nice chore I had done . I glow . I was sure this garden was going to be one for the story — or flora — book .

One even in June my kids were avail me water ( study : running through the sprinkler ) , and my neighbor wandered over to blab out shop . We chatted about the weather , how to keep the deer from snacking on our bean , and other significant “ gardeny ” things that I was doing my best to keep up with .
He nodded his headspring toward the enigma stalks , which now stand up knee richly , and nonchalantly mentioned , “ I think you might want to pull those . They look like Indian mallow . ”
“ I do n’t know , ” I answer , find slightly defensive about these somethings that hulk over my broccoli plants . ( I had become weirdly invested in what these would become . ) “ widow’s weeds would n’t spring up in such double-dyed line . I retrieve I ’ll leave them for now and see what happens . ”

He smiled and nod and went on chatting about how much we require rain . Several week later , when I was picking my very first Lycopersicon esculentum , my neighbor stroll over to pride me , and again he nod toward the rowing of plant that now came up to my pelvic girdle .
“ Are you certain they ’re something you planted ? Those really do calculate an awful lot like butter-print . ”
“ I ’m not certain , ” I admitted . “ But I think I ’m go to hold off a short longer . ” He smiled and nodded and go away on confab about tomatoes and blight and a natural baking soda pop therapeutic he might attempt .

Midsummer , a friend stopped to visit , and we finish up in my garden . “ How long you been growing the velvet-leaf ? ” he joked , pointing to the tallest run-in in the garden . I close my oculus in humiliation and defeat .
If this friend who knew very little about horticulture could confirm what my neighbour had been kindly trying to severalize me for months , I had no alternative but to give up the fight . The lesson I study that day was to listen to veteran soldier gardeners , especially when they ’re utter so kindly to you . If they separate you “ It ’s velvetleaf,”it ’s credibly velvetleaf .
When Jamie is n’t hunting down seedlings of velvetleaf ( Abutilon theophrasti ) in her garden with the anger of a thousand fervid suns , she ’s hanging with her nestling at the pool to pick up amusing bits she can practice in her next young adult novel .

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